Setting Up That Perfect Kiss

Posted on November 8, 2010 by datingnews

When dating, one of the best ways to show each other that you like and love each other is through the simple act of kissing.  Now, not all kissing means this, so it is important to understand how to set yourself up to have that special meaningful kiss when in a relationship.  The first thing to do is to set the boundary of kiss distinction.  A peck on the cheek or a short lip kiss can just be a way of saying hello to many people, but a deep passionate kiss is something that should wait until you really mean it.  This begs the question, when should this kind of kiss be had?

The first thing to understand is not to give it all away at the beginning.  While you may want to have a makeout buddy, or a one night stand, don’t expect it to be anymore than that if you give it all away up front.  If you want the dating process to continue, and if you like the person you are dating, the key is to not give it all away the first couple of dates.  A goodnight hug or small kiss is fine, but save the passionate kissing until you are sure the passion really exists.  This can be hard for many people as passion and attraction are a bit different, but most people have a hard time making the distinction between the two.

Once you have the realization that you like or even love that person, stop holding back and let them know it!  The best way to do this is through a hot passionate kiss that will send them soaring as they know you care about them deeply.  This type of relationship can help you to change the relationship status from just a fund dating experience to a full time relationship.  As you follow these tips, you will be better prepared for that special kiss and you will be better prepared to do it right the first time!

Posted in Web Dating News | Tagged , | Leave a comment

How To Find The Courage To Ask Someone Out

Posted on November 8, 2010 by datingnews

Have you had your eyes on someone but just haven’t had the courage to ask that special someone out?  The first thing to understand is that this feeling is normal and there is nothing wrong with you for feeling this way.  The trick is to overcome this fear by following a few steps.  The first thing to understand is the reasoning behind your fear.  Once you understand the fears that you have, it will be much easier to be able to deal with them.  The problem is that too many people don’t even know the reason why they are having a hard time asking someone to go on a date with them.  Most of the time its because of self confidence issues that are linked to your self esteem and self image.  Once you can just accept yourself for who you are, you will find it is much easier to be able to ask someone out on a date as you won’t be so worried about what they think about you.

The next step is to actually ask that person out.  Just do it!  The worst thing that can happen is that they will say no.  Being rejected is part of the dating process. Everyone that eventually finds their special someone has been rejected at least a few times in their life.  Once this rejection happens, you just learn from it and move on.  Don’t let it affect your life too much.  Once you ask the person out, the next step is to only give them a little bit of information.  Spilling the beans on the entire date that you will go on takes out all the mystery and fun loving spirit of it all.  Give them just enough to keep them interested, but make sure to keep things interesting by not divulging all of the details.  As you do this, you will find that you will have much better dates and that asking a person out is not that difficult.

Posted in Singles Tips | Tagged , | Leave a comment

How Long Should Your Date Be?

Posted on October 15, 2010 by datingnews

When planning a date, you will find that are a lot of different factors that go into it.  Are you going to go out to eat somewhere?  Do you have plans before dinner so that you can do some kind of activity before it gets dark outside?  Are you going to go back to your place after dinner to watch a movie or are you going to catch a flick at the theater?  There are so many different options that are available to you that it can sometimes be a bit of a challenge to fit everything you want to do into a single date.  Well here are some words for the dating wise, don’t!  Split up your dating ideas into a variety of different dates.  Not only does this help with your planning, it can also help you to avoid any awkward situations.

When you are first starting to court somebody then shorter dates are always a good option.  They can help you to keep the magic an mystery in your relationship.  If you spend too much time together, too quick, then you are likely to get sick of each other and want to take some time off.  If you only spend an hour or two with that person and then don’t see them for a couple days then you will be constantly thinking about them and you’ll get excited to see them the next time you reunite.

If you spend too much time together on a first date because of all of the things that you have planned then you are taking a huge risk.  The date may turn out to be a total disaster and you will wish that you hadn’t spent so much time and money on that person.  It is much better to start with a simple date to go get a shake or go on a walk rather than planning out the entire night’s worth of activities.

Posted in Singles Tips | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Tips When Spiffing Up Your Apartment For Your Date

Posted on October 12, 2010 by datingnews

When single, you will have a lot of people come and go who will be invited to parties at your place, or over for a dating experience.  So what types of things should you look out for and pay special attention to when having people over?  Obviously your place should be clean, but the way that it looks can make a huge difference when it comes to how your potential dates will view your way of life and your living area.

The most important thing to understand about where you live is that many people look at your dwelling as an extension of you.  This has nothing to do with the size of the place you live in, but for example, if you have a really messy room, it would tell a person that you are unorganized and that you live life in a crazy way.  This is usually a huge turn off to most potential daters, so make sure when you clean your place that you pay special attention to clutter.  This means make sure your desk is cleared off, your clothes are picked up off the floor, and please make your bed!  These little things will help to show that you are an organized person and have it together as nobody wants to date a train wreck.

The next thing is the smell of the place that you live.  Girls are especially aware of scents and the smells that exist in a place.  Girls are so concerned with this that they use all kinds of smelly lotions and all kinds of things to make them smell good.  They too want to be in a place that smells good, so throw out the garbage, and make sure that your linens and clothes are clean  and have been washed.

Keep your living area simple, and don’t over decorate.  A simplistic look can be very inviting and make your guest very excited to be there.  As you follow these tips, you will be better prepared to clean your apartment and living area in a way that will be more inviting and help to increase your chances of finding someone to date.

Posted in Singles Tips | Tagged , | Leave a comment

How To Know If She Is Into You

Posted on October 12, 2010 by datingnews

Most women would agree that it is easy to tell if a guy is into them or not, but for the guys, it can be a much more difficult thing to know whether or not a woman is into you.  Not all women are as clear about the way they feel about you or if they are attracted to you.  So what are the signs to look for to determine whether or not the person you have taken on a date is interested in you?  Here are few tips for single guys that need a little extra help to know if that girl is into you or not.

The first thing is the smile.  If the girl is not smiling, she is not having fun.  A smile not only signals a good time and happiness, but it can also be a sign of attraction.  Just think about it, if she thinks you are attractive, that will make her happy and the smile will just naturally come.

Another thing to look for when determining if the girl is into you or not is to see if she is looking you in the eyes when you talk.  Most people look each other in the eyes to show their sincerity and to help them know that they value them enough to look in their eyes and hear what they are saying.  If your date is looking into your eyes while you talk,  that is a great sign that she is into you.  If you find her staring off or looking past you when talking, then she probably isn’t that into you.

The next thing is physical touching.  Is she reaching out and touching your hand, or your shoulder when you are talking?  If so, then you have a great indicator that she is into you.  While this sign does not always need to be there, if it is, you have a huge indicator that she is really into you, instead of just enjoying your company.  If this is the case, a kiss is definitely in the works for later!

These tips will help you to keep the advantage when you start dating and will help you to lock down on the girls that are interested in you.

Posted in Singles Tips | Tagged , | Leave a comment

Free Dating Sites for Men

Posted on October 9, 2010 by datingnews

Opening your free web Dating options

The dating world is a vicious one—full of expected surprises, heartbreak, and so-called “learning experiences.”  For a lot of you guys, you might even ask what you might do to have a successful dating experience in this age.  Things are just different than how they used to be, and it seems that the “normal dating atmosphere” gets to be a smaller and smaller space as the years pass by.  For this reason, free dating sites for men might be a great solution for you.  This will open up some doors that previously may have been shut for you.

Think about it—if you have lived in one place for a while, and have not found anything lasting in your small community of connections, it’s time you get out a little more, and experience what might be waiting out there.  Free dating sites for men present a person with hundreds of new faces, all with unique stories and backgrounds.  It’s a whole new field of play.  By signing up for one of these free web dating services, you just might be able to find something that you really connect with.

And there are all kinds of options.  With the variety of personality types, interests, and backgrounds available, there are sites set up to target each of them.  If you are the kind of guy who is looking for an “outdoorsy” kind of girl, you need only to search for the dating website that will cater to your interests.  This goes for almost any category, be it age, race, religion, hobbies, or anything else.  In that way, you can begin to search for someone that could potentially be compatible with you, and narrow down the expanse of possibility.

Free dating sites for men are just that—free, which means that you can do some surfing through options without paying a dime.  Some people say that most free sites are less serious about commitment in relationship, due to the fact that there was no ‘commitment’, (in the form of monthly payment) for the service.  But if that is what you are looking for, you might just be in the right place. 

And so it is that on your free time, you will be free to try your luck at the virtual dating scene.  It is not the traditional way of going about the courting process, but a surprising amount of people have found it to be fruitful and satisfying.  Try your luck, then, at the free dating sites for men.

Posted in Free Web Dating Sites | Leave a comment

Dating on a Budget

Posted on October 1, 2010 by datingnews

Let’s face it, not all of us are made of money.  We don’t all drive sports cars to go pick up our girls and go to the nicest restaurant in town for a date.  Most of us live pretty average lives where we either work or go to school most of the day, and then we head home to get our daily errands done and pray that the weekend will come sooner so that we can get some much needed rest and relaxation time.  Occasionally on these weekend nights we even go to all of the trouble to ask a girl out on a date and plan a little something.  While this can be a very fun and rewarding experience, it can also end up being time consuming and expensive.  Here are some tips on how to date on a budget.

  1. First of all, set a price range before you even begin the date.  If you are just going on a fun group date with a bunch of other people and you think the girl you are taking is fun but not necessarily the love of your life, you might consider planning a date that is between 10 and 15 bucks.  If you are going on a single date with a girl you could possible like a lot then maybe you would be willing to spend between 20 and30 bucks.  You need to decide all of this before you actually start the date so that you can make sure that you don’t go overboard with spending.  This will help you to better pick restaurants, activities, and other things as you plan the date.
  2. Choose an activity that you can both do that doesn’t require you to have to spend money.  This could be something as simple as going out and flying a kite, going rollerblading in a home made rink, or feed the ducks at the local pond.
Posted in Singles Tips | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

5 Things To Try On A Date

Posted on September 30, 2010 by datingnews

Ever want to be adventurous on a first date? Well here are 5 things that you can try on a first date to try and give your date the message that you are interested in them.

  1. Reach out and touch them.  Being able to be touched by someone even briefly, can increases the ability to like that person.  You should take special care when touching someone, as there is a wrong and right way to do it.  Briefly and even accidentally touch your date by touching them on the hand or arm when they say something funny or serious.  You can even say something like “i know!” and briefly touch their hand in acknowledgment.
  2. Research shows that if you get a man to hold something for you that it can show that they are a warmer person that is more willing to get to know you on an emotional level.  A warm room also has the same effect for most dating couples.  If the environment is hot, they will be more likely to think that you are hot.  This means that you should sit for dinner in warmer places than in colder.
  3. The next thing is to be smooth.  What we mean by this is to avoid dive bars with big beat up table and uncomfortable chairs.  Make sure you go to a place that feels good, with comfortable chairs, etc to make the person associate nice things and smooth places to be with you.
  4. mimicking people’s body language is also something that works.  If the person you talk to uses their hands alot, use your hands a bit more to explain something without making it look like you are making fun of them.
  5. Always make sure to be in places that has things in it that you or your date like.  This means that they will be better able to use the word pleasure and think of you which is a great advantage to have when trying to date online.
Posted in Web Dating News | Tagged , | Leave a comment

What Your Dinner Selection Says About You

Posted on September 30, 2010 by datingnews

It may sound silly, but what you order for dinner on your first date will say alot about you.  What do we mean by this?  Well obviously it totally depends on the restaurant that you are going to be eating at.  For example, if you are going out to eat with your date at a nice steak restaurant, and order a cheese sandwich, you will look totally silly.  The fact is that if you order the usual, it means that you have not tried new things, nor are you the type to be able to get out of your comfort zone.  To make sure you look like you are willing to have fun and are willing to try new things, make sure to order something that is different, but not too crazy.  It is important to like what you order, so for example, at a steak restaurant, it would be totally normal to order a fish type of meal, or something with steak and shrimp, just not the usual steak dinner. This will show that your culinary tastes are refined.

There is a lot of good food in the world.  If you don’t get out there and try some of the things that are out there to try, you will be missing out on some seriously good food.  It is a good idea to make sure that you get the food that sounds interesting, and could be good before you go on the date.  This will help to widen your culinary pallet and give you a much larger food liking .  Much like expounding your vocabulary, you can expand your food likings so that when you go to a restaurant, there will be things that you can order that will show off your prowess and your food likes.  This will also help you out if your date is also refined and has a wide array of food likes.  You will find that food can be a connection level to allow you to connect with people.

Posted in Singles Tips | Tagged , | Leave a comment

Proper Dating Hygiene

Posted on September 23, 2010 by datingnews

So you finally got the guts to ask a girl out.  That, in and of itself, was maybe your single most impressive feat you have ever accomplished.  Now that you have a girl that you have finally tricked into going out with you, you need to make sure that you take the steps to impress her (or if nothing else, at least make yourself tolerable).  The first step to having a successful date it to take care of your hygiene!

Now, being a dude entitles you to a lower standard of hygiene.  You can lick cheetos off of your fingers and burp and fart at will.  These types of behaviors, however, have no place in the dating scene.  You burp on a first date and you might as well call her a cab because she isn’t going to want to have to spend any more time with you.  Being clean and having good dating hygiene can be simple, and hopefully you are doing at least some of these things on a daily basis.

First, you need to shower.  As much as you love the mud stains on your arms that you got last week from playing football with the guys, it has got to go.  Try using shampoo and conditioner for once in your life, so that your hair isn’t all greasy and gross.  Try using a body wash (like the 24 hour body odor blocker) in order to keep smelling clean throughout the night.  Try using a deodorant/antiperspirant so that you not only don’t stink, but so you aren’t getting sweat tacos in your pits because you are nervous the whole night.

Second, try shaving.  Girls actually don’t enjoy the Amish neck beard look, even though you’ve seen Lebron James do it over the offseason.  Trim up that scruff, and then maybe even try fixing your hair a little bit.  If nothing else, just comb it out of your face.

Lastly, if you are feeling especially hygiene conscious maybe throw on a squirt of cologne.  Don’t put too much though, or you’re date will be embarrassed the entire night because everyone can smell you from a mile away.  A single squirt should do.

Posted in Singles Tips | Tagged , , | Leave a comment